4th of July is around the corner?

OK I know this may sound crazy but I have been FREAKING out about 4th of July. I always hate how much emphasis on food there is and it is just detramental to my sanity! Like I love talking to people I have not seen in a while but sometimes it is just a pain in the ass! For example if I am too skinny people will be trying to get me to eat a lot and I will feel very uncomfortable, if I'm on the verge or minimally a healthy weight my relatives will be like ohhh you have gained weight! Or you look so different you are more womanly! IDK it drives me crazy! Anyways it is like June 13 so this should not even be freaking me out but it is! If anyone has any tips to deal with remarks please let me know! Thanks so much :)